Feb 1, 2010

Doing the right thing.

This morning I went to my health center, and was talking with one of the nurses when we heard this grunting-huffing sound. She gave me an inquisitive look, and I said, oh it must be one of the dogs outside (of which there are a plethora of and they´re always making strange noises of sorts fighting over food etc.) We heard it a couple other times soon thereafter and I again blew it off. I looked out the window and saw nothing. She decides to go and investigate and come to find out it was a man laying outside our window convulsing. As the nurse later told me, ¨that thump was a human body hitting the ground¨(which I didn’t hear) I felt horrible. This was something serious and I had dismissed it partly from lack of experience (It was and odd sound) partly lack of interest, and partially lack of curiosity. Now I would label myself as an interested, curious, and to a lesser extent experienced person, yet I passed on a very legitimate opportunity to do the right thing. How often do we miss opportunities like that, without even knowing? This isn´t an isolated experience either, I vaguely remember similar things, passing up on helping someone (It’s not my problem) when a small action like handing the lady vomiting on the bus a plastic bag rather than changing seats, would take little time and thought on my part, but would make a huge difference in the other persons day.

When the man was carried into the center, I went back to the nurse and told her how terrible I felt, and she just smiled and gave me a hug.

1 comment:

WkedPhotogrphr said...

Hazel! This shows how long I've gone without commenting, I have to catch up on your life!

I've often thought about that too, in different situations when you're faced with things that you should act on, but at the time you just blank. I've always admired people who immediately respond and help out, and I'm left feeling dumb, I should have thought of that!

It's so hard to know what to do in an immediate situation, and are you better off leaving it alone, or risking it and stepping in? And what's your best move? I think a lot of things rush through your mind, like I don't want to impose, do they need my help, what happens if I do something wrong and somehow it comes back on me negatively? That's too much to think of in a second already.

This just might be one of those times that you wake up to and make sure you're more aware of things in the future. I remember hearing a story of a woman who was raped and while it was happening she was calling out for help. There were a bunch of people in the area, and no one did anything about it! It's amazing as humans, we don't naturally want to help, or if we do, we don't know what to do.
I also heard that people won't respond to "Help" but if you yell "Fire" everyone comes running. That's crazy!